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From: Wolf Alexander <allwomensrights@gmail.com>
Date: Tue, Sep 30, 2025, 4:42 PM
Subject: LGBTQ Rep Question
To: Seth Sturm <Sethsturm@gmail.com>
From: Wolf Alexander <allwomensrights@gmail.com>
Date: Tue, Sep 30, 2025, 4:42 PM
Subject: LGBTQ Rep Question
To: Seth Sturm <Sethsturm@gmail.com>
I have a number of questions maybe you can help with.
1. Because I am deliberately being as "un-wolf" like as possible, gay men think I'm gay. Since straight men stare at women. I do not stare at women. So they think I'm a shy fag, instead of a super-careful pussy-hunter.
How do I make them stop thinking that without acting the standard male asshole?
2. How can I politely, with words or imagery, get them to stop approaching me? Or worse, slinking by and/or sitting next to me waiting for a moment?
3. My worst fear continues to be that I misgender (in the way I mean) a woman. As in, I from peripheral vision see someone I determine a boy when in fact it is a girl in gym clothes and a tight ponytail or short hair.
I then ignore her, because I think she's a he. Hurt her feelings, and maybe miss out on a date.
I could assume all those I am unsure about are women and then hold back the vomit if I find I'm wrong.
But (and this is a question neither you nor your nephew can really answer) if women see me reacting positively to a man I wrongly guessed a women, they'll think I'm gay. As will other men. Exascerbating the problem.
And it is a problem.
Yesterday in Whole Foods I had fuckin men following me. Yuck.